THE MISCELLANEOUS DATING ADVENTURES OF A BUBBLY 20SOMETHING


well recently i have realized just how difficult dating is going to be as i grow older. not that it's going to be any less fun or enjoyable, but that the care-free times of yore are now going to be few and farther between.

i wonder if all singles reach a time in their lives when they start to reevaluate certain relationship decisions they made long ago? I wonder if there's ever a moment of reflection where they wish they had of stuck around with that "certain someone" just a little longer... or maybe they think that things would have been so different if only you had learned to live with "you-know-who's" make-or-break flaw...or maybe it would have been you walking down that aisle instead of your bff if you had of accepted that date with that "what's-his-name" boy who you only had luke-warm feelings for...

this little canadian boy has certainly been around the block a few times...and around, and around, and around, and back again...and i certainly have my share of demons and skeletons in the closet...ones that i've been trying to forget about over the years...but now things are different; now an ocean separates me from my demons, and i find myself in a new land with new ones to be discovered.

does dating ever get easier? will first dates always be like job interviews with cocktails? will i ever be able to see things for how they really are? since i've been in the UK i've decided to cut my losses with the silly-billy's from my past, and look forward instead of behind.

they say things happen when you're not looking for them...but then how do people find eachother on dating websites? isn't that looking???? why are they exceptions to the rule? regardless, i'm going back to being career and "ME" focused...cause children, at the end of the day you're the only one that matters...

remember that