SUMMER OF...



(a little late, i know but better now than never!!) British boys, London, Brighton, Camden, Notting Hill, SOHO, gay clubs, the return of Electro, checkered prints, "footie", star tattoos, pooches flying overseas to be reunited with their fathers, living off your overdraft, finding out bad things from someone you really like, red red wine, British boys, mixmag, lady gaga, ava leigh, rihanna's "disturbia", alphabeat, "pjanoo", pete tong, carl cox, tiesto, hed kandi, katie price and peter andre, summer beach reads, having rocks on the beach instead of sand, summer "halifax" flatmates, blogs being revisited, blondes, male g-spot stimulators, getting ready to teach Year 2, "gok's fashion fix", High street styles, classic style aviators, beach bum styles, contrasting color pairings, Primark, TOPMAN, British boys, "the noble vine", late-night drinks, heart 2 heart chats with roomies at 6 am, Urban Outfitters, cider, the "sex and the city" movie, "zombie strippers", bright colored ties, "twilight" book series, "angel uncovered" by katie price, trash, dirrty behaviors, making out with boys in converted churches, sight-seeing, long-distance phone calls, mobiles, "sidekick", night-buses, queing up, "heaven", roller disco, plentyoffish.com, chatting with old flames from your past who should have stayed in your past but instead end up calling you fucked up and asking you to marry them, un petit pillule et demi, pureness, lynx body wash, ordering things online when you can't find them at your local, the x factor, big brother UK, "friends" reruns on 24/7, dreaming of new tattoos until you can actually afford them, andy warhol originals, seeing live music, dj's, loving your lives, carousels, piers, fake and baking, shopping till you drop, doritos, veganism, bettering yourself and making good decisions, being YOU!

DEAL-BREAKERS

what are the relationship deal-breakers in your eyes?

imagine the last thing you'd want your boyfriend/girlfriend to tell you...what is it? what does it involve? what would you say? and most importantly, could you get past it?

does there exist certain things/actions/circumstances that are a part of your partner's past that if revealed would cause you to look at them differently, and thusly evaluate how much you want to be with them?

i'm sure everyone can think of something that if heard from your bf/gf's lips would have them running for the hills...but now imagine that you've actually heard it...

now react.

what do you do; do you stick around? do you wait it out? do you try and learn more as to better understand why they did what it is they did? or do you simply turn away and hope that the next one that comes along won't have as much baggage with them?

but what if the next one does? what if the next one's is worse??? or horror of horrors yet, what if you then realize that the one you turned away, meant more to you over-all than their bit of "unfortunate news"???????

they say everyone's threshold of pain is different, but what about our emotional threshold? are some of us better equipped to handle with these "deal-breakers", and if so where do they get their strength???

this one needs time to ponder me thinks...but what if in this case time only shadows the issue even more??? hmmm....

MIZZ JAMESON














well loads has been happening in the jenna jameson part of the world; let's start with the gorgeous ad you see before you!!!! miss jameson has been involved with peta for quite some time now; she's been quoted as saying it's a cause that's very dear to her heart...and well we all know how down i am with my girl J, and this just solidifies our relationship all the further!!

always an animal lover, in previous peta ad's she's shed her attire in a bid to consumers to purchase "pleather" instead of the ever-animal-cruel "leather".

this time around, she appears naked (and with a killer hair-cut; very much a pornstar take on "the rihanna") alerting us to all be sure to spay/neuter our pets. now this may seem odd to some; what's so wrong with breeding animals??? isn't that like saying to humans "get your tubes tied you dirty whores!"??? but peta brings up a very good point; the more animals go not being spayed or neutered, the more likely they are to go whore around town, get knocked up, and end up having loads of litters that sometimes go uncared for.

now if you're an animal lover; and you freakin' better be, this should hit you close to your heart! i've had both my puppies fixed as soon as i could; not only does it help cut down on the amount of homeless animals roaming the streets, but it also is beneficial to the animal. you'll notice improvements in behaviors as well as the way they act in public!

i also love the cheekiness of the ad; for those of you who can't read between the lines the ad features jenna jameson (aka the Queen of Porn) advertising that sometimes "too much sex, can be a bad thing..." can't you just taste the irony??

and in other jenna news; not that i'm the first to announce it, but my dear JJ is pregnant!!!!!! isn't that exciting???

after suffering miscarriages she's finally preggers with her first child with boyfriend tito ortiz (the UFC dude!) i couldn't be happier for her, she deserves nothing but the best!!!

congrats jenna!!!!!!!!!!

xx

WHAT I'M LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW

1. Ava Leigh; her cd is not out until September i do believe, but you can find some of her tracks on limewire that have been leaked.

she's fuckin' phenomenal; reggae mixed with pop and a sultry british accent... this blonde beauty lives in Brighton and it shows through her laid-back, hippy/surfer vibe. some note-worthy tracks include "mad about the boy" and "burnin".
2. Lady Gaga; she also is fuckin' phenomenal, yet a tad bit more dancy!! think gwen stefani and madonna's lovechild...complete with sexual experimentation and style of music!!

"just dance" features akon and it's one of summer's best club-bangers!! she's american, blonde (with a fringe), gorgeous, and the "new gay icon" according to yours truly!! other note worthy tracks include "love games", "dirty ice cream", "boys boys boys", and "papparazzi". her cd "the fame" is due out in October.

3. the Ting Ting's; the british pop phenomenon duo is new to the music scene, but with their debut album "we started nothing" they seem like seasoned veterans! a little indy, a little pop-ish, all amazing!!! my favorite track is "shut up and let me go"...and the video is a real trip too!

4. sam sparro; what can i say about the tuxedo-clad babe of "black and gold" video fame. he's openly gay, fantastic, with a retro-new-rave vibe to his music! besides the aforementioned "black and gold", check out "sick" and "cling wrap". not exactly club-bangers, but definitely note-worthy!

5. Natty; this reggae king is new to my ears, but i'm loving what i've heard so far! very mellow reggae, but fantastic!!

check 'em out lovahs, you won't be disappointed!

WHERE ARE ALL THE LATE 20SOMETHING GUYS????











now this may not make the most sense to my "non-gay/young" fanbase, but check this out: as most of you know i'm quite the fan of plenty of fish (.com) but recently have noticed a certain unfortunate trend happening...

whenever i log on to take a look at what's available, i notice there's a huge divide between the types of guys out there: first of all you have the 18-21 year old's- mostly "newly" out of the closet, new to the "scene", some pill-heads, and very-often-more-often-than-not only into 1-nighters...

now not to categorize them as a formal group or anything, but if i were to lend myself over to the stereotype i might happen to say that these 18-21 year olds (as i was at that age) tend to not know what they want...and if they do know what they want, they don't know how to get it. and if they do know how to get it, usually go about "getting it" all the wrong way. most, and i do mean "most" can be somewhat obsessive, and tend to become easily attached. (k i feel awful to be writing that, cause i was that kind of 18-21 year old...)

so there's one group; the second is the 35-45 year olds...now i don't know too much about that group, since they never seem to message me...or i them...which is odd because i've had a few silver-foxes in my day, and have always found their type (middle-aged, been-around-the-block-know-how-to-use-their-cock, in shape, spry) quite attractive...

my question is this: where are all the in-betweeners??!?!?!?!?!?

like seriously; where are the 24-30 year olds???????

i'll tell you where they are; they've all got boyfriends...

see the 18-21 year olds just haven't found one yet...and the 35-45 year olds are recently divorced/broken-up from their husbands, partners, boyfriends, what-have-you!!!!!!

so what does this mean???? have i missed my chance????? was my long-term relationship out there somewhere and i just let it pass me by???? has mister right come and gone, or even worse-off; have i already had him and let him get-away??!?!?!!?

its infuriating!!!!!!! so this goes out to all the gay 24-30 year olds out there who feel the same way i do...fancy a date?