shhhhh

i've always been quite intrigued by sex and those who really put it out there...

our society has built somewhat of a stigma around sex, and those who build their life around it...forcing it underground, and out of sight, where the term "seedy" takes over like some sort of excuse.

yet behind closed doors, even the worlds elite are doing it...and worse off, they're probably the ones that get their rocks off in the most "naughtiest" of ways...and subsequently they scoff those who are the most honest about their carnal desires...

doesn't that seem a tad bit hypocritical to anyone else???

i think that's why i have an obsession with porn, and strippers (love you jenna), because this is probably the most honest industry in the whole world, existing with practically nothing to hide, and purely there for our enjoyment...isn't that what sex is all about?

to turn our noses up at the girls who need to "dance" to make a living, yet then go out on saturday night and pick up a random to satisfy that burning desire we possess to not be alone...is the saddest thing i could possibly imagine...

who are we to judge?

that thing...

so i have always believed that everybody has their own little kinks...some that we don't always want to share with people, and others that we love to flaunt and have exposed for the raw kinks that they are...

but no matter how vanilla or raunch your specific kink is, does that make it wrong? is there a level of kinkiness that deems some to be acceptable, and others not??

i recently "came out" to carolyn with the prospect of a new "kink" of mine, and let's just say she was less than "ok" with it...k, now wait; it had nothing to do with her...well at least not directly, anyways... and she was very quick to judge...to say the least...

what gives people the right to judge the factors that get us off?? who allows them the permission to view our kinks as taboo, yet their own as totally acceptable??

shouldn't we all just accept our dirrty little secrets for what they are, and move on? especially between friends...what's it to them, really??

am i right??