NEVER AGAIN
it never works out, it's (mostly) a waste of time (in the long run anyway), and we're getting too old to still feel satisfied by a quick fix...and let's not forget the 'money-grab' factor.
why are online dating sights so attractive? seriously, i bet not one of you can tell me that you haven't tried it, or atleast don't know someone who's tried it...and what? has it worked out for you/them? or did they just end up having *somewhat ok* sex with someone, to never see them again? i mean, trust me i'm 'dating's' number one fan, i love dating, i love the thrill that goes along with meeting someone new, and the butterfly feeling, and i can't wait to feel it again!
but not that way.
that's a chapter that i think the world has to close in their lives, turn our backs on it and move on. the only significant relationships that i've had have been with people who i've met when i least expected it. mind you most of those haven't worked out either, but at least they've meant a little something more...more than those dirty one-night stands, where the person becomes nothing more than another knock in your bedpost.
promiscuity is over people, it's time to start respecting ourselves more, and to stop settling for those quick and dirty fixes. i know i've praised services like lavalife and cruiseline before, and sure they were fun and entertaining at the time, but at the ripe ol' age of 25 i'm here to tell you people; we deserve more. there's better out there. and we're not gonna find "love happiness" from a dial-a-date service.
stop worrying that you won't find him, cause you will...never give up the dream of love...cause it will happen...
i used to feel like i gave a little piece of myself away with every nameless face i let into my bedroom, but i'm happy to say that i'm over that way of feeling. do something for me, will you? the next time you look in the mirror and see that shining face of your staring back at you, say to it..."i'm worth it..."
and don't forget to keep smiling!
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